Is it a marketing gimmick?   Is it yet another of the hundreds of flags and ideologies and families?   Is it just another philosophy, stated by another would-be-FetlifeKing, pending approval-and-then abandonment? not hardly. (but we can see how you'd think so) You see, it begins -- as many things do, especially good stories - a long, long time ago, in a galaxy far, far away...  In 2002 our hero, Kenova, moved to follow his afianced (now ex-) into Philadelphia. Creative Kin

Amish Paradise, yo.   In all seriousness, someone asked me on my blog what I think the most important thing is for a new Dominant.    Having written a “newbie Dominant” post a few months ago, I considered just sending back an email with a link, but that seemed disrespectful. The man took the time to ask me a genuine question – I owe him an authentic (if not as witty as usual) answer.  Should I tell him to invest in rope?   Find a good local mentor?   Only use water-based lub