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GFD - Bringing your kink into the vanilla world
The key to bringing any kink into vanilla life lies in three essential elements: Consent, Constraint, and Complications. First, remember that people around you haven't consented to participate in your scene or play. Even when you're incorporating kink into your daily lifestyle, others haven't agreed to take part. So indulge your kink and its sensations without creating "splash" that forces others to participate. You might not think wearing a dog collar in public is a big deal
Kenova
Oct 24 min read
GFD - Gentle Femdom, Gentle Domme, Role Reversal --- what is it?
Gentle Femdom (GFD) is a form of FemDom (female domination, sometimes FemDomme or FD) that takes a different approach from scene-intensive dynamics. Unlike traditional FemDom—which often embraces sissification, gynocracy, cuckolding, humiliation, or physical “punishment”, GFD is often approached more as a 24/7 relationship (or mimicking that style, in the case of professional dominants) and avoids the harsher philosophy typically associated with “real” Femdom. GFD shifts "aw
Kenova
Sep 22 min read
CBT and using our Ball Busters / Boy Bit Breakers
We're writing this one, because we just feel that they don't get enough love. Things for busting on boy bits, anyway. Good tips and tools for CBT to remember: Long canes are a BAD idea. Seriously. No fine control. Short range Whips require a lot of practice. We've known a few Pro Dommes who learned by practicing with oranges and apples. There's nothing so terrifying as a whip cracking a few inches from your manhood. Just be sure to keep it from getting too close - the air dis
Kenova
Sep 2, 20122 min read
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