AKA, Your Kink is Not My Kink, But Your Kink…is Still Not a Kink, It’s a Paraphilia. Look.   This isn’t an attack on diaper-wearing, monkey-loving, rule 34-waving gym-sock-suckers.   All of that is cool.   No, really.   My cynical, sarcastic phrasing aside, it’s cool.   Go ahead; let your freak flag (privately) fly.   Have your cake, and stick yourself into it too.   Lick the frosting off someone’s toes.   That’s awesome – you’re participating in the American ideal:   Freedom

I’ve seen a few of these online, on Facebook and Fetlife.   So I decided to write my own, and see what rattles the tree.   I actually receive indignant emails about "And So I'm the Bad Guy...” from people who followed from Google or FL.    Because, you know, anonymous people online cursing at me is going to be uber-successful in converting me “back into the fold”.   That said.   Please DeFriend me:  1.  If you demand that I respect your kinks, your politics, your sexual prefe

I’ve read a lot of blowback generated against the Don’t Stick Your Dick in Crazy (Or Let it Stick Its Dick In You) concept.    So far, the overwhelming majority of it comes from those who have either suffered mental illness themselves or partnered with those who have.    There is a wide spread array of responses, most boiling down to “DSYDIC is an unfair attack against people who are different,” or “How dare you not stick your dick in crazy, they have rights too!”   The ones